Good morning to you!
This one will be quick.
It has happened to us all on Facebook, but it happened to me yesterday.
I received "that" friend request. Yes, I'm talkin' 'bout that one from the crush I had when I was in the 11th grade.
We were crazy about each other...........back in the day, of course. We never, however, entered into any type of relationship though, just phone contact. Naturally, that made the mental escapades even more vivid. Why, you ask? Well, it's quite simple. The less involved a person is, with a previous infatuation, the greater capacity one has to create a "perfect fantasy" in one's mind; because you don't have any 'horrrible endings' to draw from, only candy-coated imaginations. At any rate, we managed to keep in touch all the way up until 1994; two years, before my wife and I were wed. You know how the Facebook scenario goes. You see the little "people" icon highlighted, showing that you have a friend request. You click on it, and suddenly......"that" name appears. I was floored. At that moment, the Ghost of Crushes Past crept up, and began to take me on a psychological and emotional roller coaster. Every conversatinon, her perfume, every song, from the past replayed, simultaneously, in my handsome, egg-shaped cranium. I buckled for a moment and regrouped.
Isn't it amazing how the voices from your body and mind never take into account, the gravity of your current circumstance and commitments? You just fly away.......at least I did. for about 8 munutes.
But, fortunately, thanks to God and the great spiritual mentors that I have, I was able to pull, from my self help medicine bag, a secret weapon that hasn't failed me yet. 'Wanna know what it is? Relax alright!!! I'm gonna tell you........
It is a question...........and it is as follows:
"If I pursue what my body and mind are telling me to pursue, what will be the consequences?"
At this point, I am able to usher in images of my reality. My wife, eight children and all the memories we've created over the past 18 years begins to crystallize.............and Wick Dad0y is back home safely from his short trip to Pleasure Island.
It is my sincere hope that you were able to grasp something my brief rendezvous with deja vu.
But now that I've gone back and absorbed everything in this blog entry, I have just one question for you.
Is it me, or did this stroll down memory lane seem longer than eight minutes to you too???????????
Wick is exiting the building.
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Friday, January 17, 2014
Daily Nugget #17 - Encounters
If you have had a bad experience with someone, make every effort to keep the experience to yourself.
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Kevin Hart, Ice Cube - Ride Along Movie Trailer 2014
Greetings Party People.
As I watched all the Christmas cartoons and basketball games today,
I began to reflect on how truly blessed I am.
At this time, however, I also cannot help but ponder about the welfare of those
who are less fortunate and may have been forgotten this season.
As I was reflecting, I happened to see this trailer (click here) for the new Kevin Hart /
Ice Cube movie: Ride Along, which hits theaters in January 2014.
Here is the question I asked myself after watching this trailer:
Friday, September 13, 2013
Dr. Wick Daddy's Daily Nugget - Sept. 13th
Your daily dose of soul food is now served. Enjoy and God bless!
Monday, September 2, 2013
Dr. Wick Daddy's Daily Nugget - Sept. 2nd - Expectation.
Party people, I hope that you enjoy today's Nugget.
The focus is, and should always be, on what lies ahead for us in the days, weeks and months to come.
The focus is, and should always be, on what lies ahead for us in the days, weeks and months to come.
Sunday, July 7, 2013
Forgiveness & Distance
This post is as much a declaration of my freedom from anger, hurt & disappointment as it is a tool that I'm hopeful will be able to equip every reader, should you ever encounter a similar event.
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Workplace Etiquette - Daily Nugget #124
In the presence of gossip, there should only be three responses:
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Daily Nugget - Feelings
When you have expressed your love, in every possible way;
And still found yourself rejected and led astray.
And still found yourself rejected and led astray.
Saturday, March 16, 2013
Saturday, February 16, 2013
MJ opens up a can on a rookie, in 2013. Can you say: comeback?
Ok party people.............
I didn't believe.............until I read it.
I'll simply say this: if there is anything in life you felt you were too old to accomplish; think again.
MJ beats Charlotte Bobcats rookie 1 on 1! Comeback talks pending?
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I didn't believe.............until I read it.
I'll simply say this: if there is anything in life you felt you were too old to accomplish; think again.
MJ beats Charlotte Bobcats rookie 1 on 1! Comeback talks pending?
Stay connected, stay informed.
Dr. Wick Daddy - "Official Fan Page"
Follow @DrWickDaddy
Stay funky, stay fresh, stay blessed.
Dr.W.D.
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Monday, January 28, 2013
Rick Ross alleged to be intended target of S. Florida shooting
In the wake of impending legislation to limit the ability of law abiding citizens to acquire 'assault weapons' (a mere political term, non-representative of any actual firearm), I would like to pose a question:
Saturday, January 5, 2013
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Daily Nugget: Keep it brand new.
Good day, to each of you.
This message goes out to all the lovely people who are in a committed relationship.
I want to want to lay this down as tenderly and frankly as possible.
It takes much less energy to reinvest in what you've built than to contemplate the excitement of yielding to the temptation that is attached to something new.
Here's why.
A person who is willing to pursue you, with the knowledge that you are in a relationship (whether it is troubled or perfect), clearly shows no respect for the boundaries of commitment.
Hence, once you finally leave the love you've built, for something new. you may find that the new person will, still, not respect the boundaries of commitment. Make sense?
In essence, the person who cheats with you (physically or emotionally) will, inevitably, cheat on you.
So if you are thinking about leaving, think again.
Hold up!!!!!!!
I'd also like to issue a disclaimer: if you are leaving your current relationship, due to infidelity or abuse, then I will express two points.
If this is your circumstance, you have obviously been hurt, either physically or emotionally and my heart goes out to you. Here are the two points.
1. What is needed most, at this stage, is good counsel from someone who knows you, loves you, won't stroke you and will also be real with you, about you.
2. You need to allow yourself a good l2 months to heal. (This time frame will allow you to wald through every season of your life, by yourself, so that you are assured that you have passed the rebouding stage.)
I know that, personally, during cloudy times, I invest my energy in making what I've built with my wife, brand new.
I do it, not necessarily, because I always feel like doing it; but for two other reasons.
1. At the age of 42, I don't have the time to train somebody on what my likes and dislikes are. For the record, everybody is a mess, to some degree. But this is my mess. I use the term mess, for the sake of humor. Those who know my wife and I know that we are super happy, because we choose to be super happy. (Well, we were super happy at least eight times, because we are raising eight children.)
2. My wife is gorgeous and if I saw her, walking around, on someone's else's arm, I might have to................... well, you know.
Well family, that's all I have for now and I sincerely hope that this post has blessed you.
Happy New Year.
Let's do it big in 2013!
Oh, one more thing.
Can you like my Facebook page? (click here)
Good bye, for real this time.
This message goes out to all the lovely people who are in a committed relationship.
I want to want to lay this down as tenderly and frankly as possible.
It takes much less energy to reinvest in what you've built than to contemplate the excitement of yielding to the temptation that is attached to something new.
Here's why.
A person who is willing to pursue you, with the knowledge that you are in a relationship (whether it is troubled or perfect), clearly shows no respect for the boundaries of commitment.
Hence, once you finally leave the love you've built, for something new. you may find that the new person will, still, not respect the boundaries of commitment. Make sense?
In essence, the person who cheats with you (physically or emotionally) will, inevitably, cheat on you.
So if you are thinking about leaving, think again.
Hold up!!!!!!!
I'd also like to issue a disclaimer: if you are leaving your current relationship, due to infidelity or abuse, then I will express two points.
If this is your circumstance, you have obviously been hurt, either physically or emotionally and my heart goes out to you. Here are the two points.
1. What is needed most, at this stage, is good counsel from someone who knows you, loves you, won't stroke you and will also be real with you, about you.
2. You need to allow yourself a good l2 months to heal. (This time frame will allow you to wald through every season of your life, by yourself, so that you are assured that you have passed the rebouding stage.)
I know that, personally, during cloudy times, I invest my energy in making what I've built with my wife, brand new.
I do it, not necessarily, because I always feel like doing it; but for two other reasons.
1. At the age of 42, I don't have the time to train somebody on what my likes and dislikes are. For the record, everybody is a mess, to some degree. But this is my mess. I use the term mess, for the sake of humor. Those who know my wife and I know that we are super happy, because we choose to be super happy. (Well, we were super happy at least eight times, because we are raising eight children.)
2. My wife is gorgeous and if I saw her, walking around, on someone's else's arm, I might have to................... well, you know.
Well family, that's all I have for now and I sincerely hope that this post has blessed you.
Happy New Year.
Let's do it big in 2013!
Oh, one more thing.
Can you like my Facebook page? (click here)
Good bye, for real this time.
Friday, October 5, 2012
Daily Nugget - Are you feelin' it?
If you have breathed oxygen on this planet for any length of time, there will be one revelation that will, eventually, become crystal clear to you:
Your feelings may overflow much less than they do, at other moments in your relationship.
This is normal.
But at about the same time that the 'gushiness' wears off, the commitment should kick in.
This is when we, as my mentor taught me, must act our way into the feeling, instead of waiting to feel our way into an action. Because, honestly, we may never get to the place of 'feeling' like loving that person.
In a nutshell, we must love the unlovable and know that it only takes one moment to shift us, from needing to show compassion to needing to receive it.
Continue to keep it 100 party people.
Dr.W.D.
Your feelings may overflow much less than they do, at other moments in your relationship.
This is normal.
But at about the same time that the 'gushiness' wears off, the commitment should kick in.
This is when we, as my mentor taught me, must act our way into the feeling, instead of waiting to feel our way into an action. Because, honestly, we may never get to the place of 'feeling' like loving that person.
In a nutshell, we must love the unlovable and know that it only takes one moment to shift us, from needing to show compassion to needing to receive it.
Continue to keep it 100 party people.
Dr.W.D.
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Daily Nugget# 256 - Love.
"To invest in the well being of others, in any capacity, with no expectation of return, is to truly express love. Who do you love?" - Dr.W.D.
Friday, August 31, 2012
Daily Nugget - Sensitivity
Sensitivity is an awesome characteristic.
It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.
The outcome depends how we channel it.
Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.
2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.
3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.
In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:
1. We become our own worst critics.
2. We may think we are better than others.
Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.
The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.
Have a swagnificent day party people!
Dr.W.D.
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It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.
The outcome depends how we channel it.
Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.
2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.
3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.
In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:
1. We become our own worst critics.
2. We may think we are better than others.
Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.
The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.
Have a swagnificent day party people!
Dr.W.D.
Help Dr. Wick Daddy help others to succeed.
The Dr. Wick Daddy Show!
Friday, July 13, 2012
Daily Nugget - The Body Talk Series
Have you ever noticed when visiting your local grocery story, that there is typically someone stationed there, to give out free samples?
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Daily Nugget - Motivation
Motivation is a 3 fold activity:
1. The act of conditioning your mind to ignore external factors that are attached to the present circumstance and inconsistent with subconscious destination.
2. The act of speaking words that are aligned with your goals, in spite of emotional messaging that stems from your momentary physical condition.
3. The process of taking action to pursue your goal, whether you believe the given climate is permissive or not. Hence, you will find that as you move toward your intended target, the resources, knowledge and relationships that are necessary to manifest your goal, will gravitate toward you.
Speak, think and do you...........everyday.
You are one of a kind, and so is your purpose.
What you despise, you were created to change.
Dr. Wick Daddy will help you get your message out.
What you have to say is important.
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1. The act of conditioning your mind to ignore external factors that are attached to the present circumstance and inconsistent with subconscious destination.
2. The act of speaking words that are aligned with your goals, in spite of emotional messaging that stems from your momentary physical condition.
3. The process of taking action to pursue your goal, whether you believe the given climate is permissive or not. Hence, you will find that as you move toward your intended target, the resources, knowledge and relationships that are necessary to manifest your goal, will gravitate toward you.
Speak, think and do you...........everyday.
You are one of a kind, and so is your purpose.
What you despise, you were created to change.
Dr. Wick Daddy will help you get your message out.
What you have to say is important.
Click below. Once you do, just click on the banner at the top.
It takes only 3 steps.
Dr. Wick Daddy
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Daily Nugget - Visualization
Your miracle is in your mouth, mind and actions.
Wealth is the manifestation of a series of thoughts and actions culminating, over time, as a direct result of a singular focus on a specific mental target.
In order to blow up, you mustn't be a professional multi-tasker, but a specialist.
In summary, everything you need is inside you.
Identify it and multiply it.
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Thursday, June 28, 2012
Daily Nugget #180 - Compassion
"Compassion toward others, positions us to receive wisdom and mercy from God, as it is a form of humility. It also draws those toward us that He has assigned to bless us." - Dr.W.D.
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Daily Nugget #165 - Depression
"Depression is rooted in selfishness. Happiness is found when one's gift is discovered and is used to serve others." - Dr.W.D.
Sunday, June 3, 2012
The Race Card: Please leave home without it.
Yes, party people, another chapter in the book of foolishness, has just been completed.
Monday, May 21, 2012
Daily Nugget #141 - Boundaries
Bon soir, mon amis!
In Baton Rouge, that is our way of saying, "Good evening, my friends!" That will conclude today's French lesson. If you want further info, please watch Adam Sandler's movie, "Waterboy".
In Baton Rouge, that is our way of saying, "Good evening, my friends!" That will conclude today's French lesson. If you want further info, please watch Adam Sandler's movie, "Waterboy".
Saturday, April 7, 2012
The Relationship Series: Choosing Sides.
One of the most difficult lessons we will ever have to learn is taking a stand for what we believe in and for those that we love. Everyday, events occur that we can allow to draw us closer or pull us further from those we are in relationship with. What is most challenging, at times, is understanding that our relationships are also package deal. In essence, when packages dissolve between our loved ones and others, we are faced with the task of deciding whether or not we will defend those that we are connected to.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Virgins, Sex, and the Secret Weapon.
Good morning DrWD family!
Yes, you read the title correctly. I have finally conducted enough research to the point that I am comfortable sharing it with each of you. This discussion will conclusively confer both a scientific and a moral thesis as to the leverage that every virgin inherently possesses over a woman who has chosen not to wait until she is married, to become sexually active.
Yes, you read the title correctly. I have finally conducted enough research to the point that I am comfortable sharing it with each of you. This discussion will conclusively confer both a scientific and a moral thesis as to the leverage that every virgin inherently possesses over a woman who has chosen not to wait until she is married, to become sexually active.
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