One of the most difficult lessons we will ever have to learn is taking a stand for what we believe in and for those that we love. Everyday, events occur that we can allow to draw us closer or pull us further from those we are in relationship with. What is most challenging, at times, is understanding that our relationships are also package deal. In essence, when packages dissolve between our loved ones and others, we are faced with the task of deciding whether or not we will defend those that we are connected to.