One of the most difficult lessons we will ever have to learn is taking a stand for what we believe in and for those that we love. Everyday, events occur that we can allow to draw us closer or pull us further from those we are in relationship with. What is most challenging, at times, is understanding that our relationships are also package deal. In essence, when packages dissolve between our loved ones and others, we are faced with the task of deciding whether or not we will defend those that we are connected to.
In a nutshell, it is not kosher to maintain a relationship with someone that betrayed or spoken against someone that we are connected to. Why, you ask? Simply put, your loyalty is compromised when you entertain the company of another who is comfortable enough to speak negatively about someone you love, in your presence. We can't control what is spoken without our knowledge or behind our backs. But once we are made aware of an offense, then we must immediately respond. (as opposed to foolishly reacting or becoming belligerent.)
Love is the simplest complication that we will ever endure. It runs deep, but it constantly twists and turns our emotions on a regular basis. Therefore, the predominant components of a healthy relationship are commitment and loyalty.
If someone has an offense with my friends or family, they are disqualified from entering my space.
If you don't love my wife, then you can't love me.
I hope that your loved ones are as fortunate, to have you feel the same way about them.
Dr. W.D.
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