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Showing posts with label wife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wife. Show all posts
Friday, September 13, 2013
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Daily Nugget: Keep it brand new.
Good day, to each of you.
This message goes out to all the lovely people who are in a committed relationship.
I want to want to lay this down as tenderly and frankly as possible.
It takes much less energy to reinvest in what you've built than to contemplate the excitement of yielding to the temptation that is attached to something new.
Here's why.
A person who is willing to pursue you, with the knowledge that you are in a relationship (whether it is troubled or perfect), clearly shows no respect for the boundaries of commitment.
Hence, once you finally leave the love you've built, for something new. you may find that the new person will, still, not respect the boundaries of commitment. Make sense?
In essence, the person who cheats with you (physically or emotionally) will, inevitably, cheat on you.
So if you are thinking about leaving, think again.
Hold up!!!!!!!
I'd also like to issue a disclaimer: if you are leaving your current relationship, due to infidelity or abuse, then I will express two points.
If this is your circumstance, you have obviously been hurt, either physically or emotionally and my heart goes out to you. Here are the two points.
1. What is needed most, at this stage, is good counsel from someone who knows you, loves you, won't stroke you and will also be real with you, about you.
2. You need to allow yourself a good l2 months to heal. (This time frame will allow you to wald through every season of your life, by yourself, so that you are assured that you have passed the rebouding stage.)
I know that, personally, during cloudy times, I invest my energy in making what I've built with my wife, brand new.
I do it, not necessarily, because I always feel like doing it; but for two other reasons.
1. At the age of 42, I don't have the time to train somebody on what my likes and dislikes are. For the record, everybody is a mess, to some degree. But this is my mess. I use the term mess, for the sake of humor. Those who know my wife and I know that we are super happy, because we choose to be super happy. (Well, we were super happy at least eight times, because we are raising eight children.)
2. My wife is gorgeous and if I saw her, walking around, on someone's else's arm, I might have to................... well, you know.
Well family, that's all I have for now and I sincerely hope that this post has blessed you.
Happy New Year.
Let's do it big in 2013!
Oh, one more thing.
Can you like my Facebook page? (click here)
Good bye, for real this time.
This message goes out to all the lovely people who are in a committed relationship.
I want to want to lay this down as tenderly and frankly as possible.
It takes much less energy to reinvest in what you've built than to contemplate the excitement of yielding to the temptation that is attached to something new.
Here's why.
A person who is willing to pursue you, with the knowledge that you are in a relationship (whether it is troubled or perfect), clearly shows no respect for the boundaries of commitment.
Hence, once you finally leave the love you've built, for something new. you may find that the new person will, still, not respect the boundaries of commitment. Make sense?
In essence, the person who cheats with you (physically or emotionally) will, inevitably, cheat on you.
So if you are thinking about leaving, think again.
Hold up!!!!!!!
I'd also like to issue a disclaimer: if you are leaving your current relationship, due to infidelity or abuse, then I will express two points.
If this is your circumstance, you have obviously been hurt, either physically or emotionally and my heart goes out to you. Here are the two points.
1. What is needed most, at this stage, is good counsel from someone who knows you, loves you, won't stroke you and will also be real with you, about you.
2. You need to allow yourself a good l2 months to heal. (This time frame will allow you to wald through every season of your life, by yourself, so that you are assured that you have passed the rebouding stage.)
I know that, personally, during cloudy times, I invest my energy in making what I've built with my wife, brand new.
I do it, not necessarily, because I always feel like doing it; but for two other reasons.
1. At the age of 42, I don't have the time to train somebody on what my likes and dislikes are. For the record, everybody is a mess, to some degree. But this is my mess. I use the term mess, for the sake of humor. Those who know my wife and I know that we are super happy, because we choose to be super happy. (Well, we were super happy at least eight times, because we are raising eight children.)
2. My wife is gorgeous and if I saw her, walking around, on someone's else's arm, I might have to................... well, you know.
Well family, that's all I have for now and I sincerely hope that this post has blessed you.
Happy New Year.
Let's do it big in 2013!
Oh, one more thing.
Can you like my Facebook page? (click here)
Good bye, for real this time.
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Daily Nugget# 256 - Love.
"To invest in the well being of others, in any capacity, with no expectation of return, is to truly express love. Who do you love?" - Dr.W.D.
Friday, August 31, 2012
Daily Nugget - Sensitivity
Sensitivity is an awesome characteristic.
It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.
The outcome depends how we channel it.
Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.
2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.
3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.
In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:
1. We become our own worst critics.
2. We may think we are better than others.
Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.
The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.
Have a swagnificent day party people!
Dr.W.D.
Help Dr. Wick Daddy help others to succeed.
The Dr. Wick Daddy Show!
It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.
The outcome depends how we channel it.
Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.
2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.
3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.
In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:
1. We become our own worst critics.
2. We may think we are better than others.
Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.
The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.
Have a swagnificent day party people!
Dr.W.D.
Help Dr. Wick Daddy help others to succeed.
The Dr. Wick Daddy Show!
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Daily Nugget # 298: Package Deal.
Party people,
It is with great joy that I begin my discourse with you tonight. It is regarding a subject that is near and dear to my heart. It is the subject of dating. In particular, we'll be addressing single ladies with children that are a part of the "dating scene".
It is with great joy that I begin my discourse with you tonight. It is regarding a subject that is near and dear to my heart. It is the subject of dating. In particular, we'll be addressing single ladies with children that are a part of the "dating scene".
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Lock and Key
Good morning friend.
I am writing to you at this hour, after much inner turmoil, regarding the nature of this topic. It has been some time, since our last post, here at TDWDS! Furthermore, I don't want this to turn into a five paragraph intro, so let's just dive in, shall we?
I am writing to you at this hour, after much inner turmoil, regarding the nature of this topic. It has been some time, since our last post, here at TDWDS! Furthermore, I don't want this to turn into a five paragraph intro, so let's just dive in, shall we?
Friday, April 1, 2011
Relationships - The Workplace.
Happy April Fools to you!
I have chosen this day to share this relationship nugget for a very specific reason, that I will delve into, momentarily.
I have chosen this day to share this relationship nugget for a very specific reason, that I will delve into, momentarily.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Relationships - Who is your mentor?
Charlie Sheen, Bill Clinton, Kobe Bryant, Wilt Chamberlain.
These names are certainly ones of notoriety and popularity. However, these personalities have also morrphed into caricatures of the shortcomings in our own lives. In my estimation, it is apparent that the aforementioned parties, may have overlooked the importance of selecting a mentor, in the area of interpersonal relationship skills. Although these individuals, have amassed significant wealth, their personal outcomes may have been, shall we say, less than desirable.
These names are certainly ones of notoriety and popularity. However, these personalities have also morrphed into caricatures of the shortcomings in our own lives. In my estimation, it is apparent that the aforementioned parties, may have overlooked the importance of selecting a mentor, in the area of interpersonal relationship skills. Although these individuals, have amassed significant wealth, their personal outcomes may have been, shall we say, less than desirable.
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