When you have expressed your love, in every possible way;
And still found yourself rejected and led astray.
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Friday, October 5, 2012
Daily Nugget - Are you feelin' it?
If you have breathed oxygen on this planet for any length of time, there will be one revelation that will, eventually, become crystal clear to you:
Your feelings may overflow much less than they do, at other moments in your relationship.
This is normal.
But at about the same time that the 'gushiness' wears off, the commitment should kick in.
This is when we, as my mentor taught me, must act our way into the feeling, instead of waiting to feel our way into an action. Because, honestly, we may never get to the place of 'feeling' like loving that person.
In a nutshell, we must love the unlovable and know that it only takes one moment to shift us, from needing to show compassion to needing to receive it.
Continue to keep it 100 party people.
Dr.W.D.
Your feelings may overflow much less than they do, at other moments in your relationship.
This is normal.
But at about the same time that the 'gushiness' wears off, the commitment should kick in.
This is when we, as my mentor taught me, must act our way into the feeling, instead of waiting to feel our way into an action. Because, honestly, we may never get to the place of 'feeling' like loving that person.
In a nutshell, we must love the unlovable and know that it only takes one moment to shift us, from needing to show compassion to needing to receive it.
Continue to keep it 100 party people.
Dr.W.D.
Friday, August 31, 2012
Daily Nugget - Sensitivity
Sensitivity is an awesome characteristic.
It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.
The outcome depends how we channel it.
Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.
2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.
3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.
In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:
1. We become our own worst critics.
2. We may think we are better than others.
Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.
The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.
Have a swagnificent day party people!
Dr.W.D.
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It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.
The outcome depends how we channel it.
Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.
2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.
3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.
In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:
1. We become our own worst critics.
2. We may think we are better than others.
Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.
The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.
Have a swagnificent day party people!
Dr.W.D.
Help Dr. Wick Daddy help others to succeed.
The Dr. Wick Daddy Show!
Monday, August 15, 2011
The Relationship Series - Intimacy
I placed a phone call to my wife today. No........it was not to flirt with her. It was to apologize to her. I will explain.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Lock and Key
Good morning friend.
I am writing to you at this hour, after much inner turmoil, regarding the nature of this topic. It has been some time, since our last post, here at TDWDS! Furthermore, I don't want this to turn into a five paragraph intro, so let's just dive in, shall we?
I am writing to you at this hour, after much inner turmoil, regarding the nature of this topic. It has been some time, since our last post, here at TDWDS! Furthermore, I don't want this to turn into a five paragraph intro, so let's just dive in, shall we?
Friday, April 1, 2011
Relationships - The Workplace.
Happy April Fools to you!
I have chosen this day to share this relationship nugget for a very specific reason, that I will delve into, momentarily.
I have chosen this day to share this relationship nugget for a very specific reason, that I will delve into, momentarily.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Relationships - Who is your mentor?
Charlie Sheen, Bill Clinton, Kobe Bryant, Wilt Chamberlain.
These names are certainly ones of notoriety and popularity. However, these personalities have also morrphed into caricatures of the shortcomings in our own lives. In my estimation, it is apparent that the aforementioned parties, may have overlooked the importance of selecting a mentor, in the area of interpersonal relationship skills. Although these individuals, have amassed significant wealth, their personal outcomes may have been, shall we say, less than desirable.
These names are certainly ones of notoriety and popularity. However, these personalities have also morrphed into caricatures of the shortcomings in our own lives. In my estimation, it is apparent that the aforementioned parties, may have overlooked the importance of selecting a mentor, in the area of interpersonal relationship skills. Although these individuals, have amassed significant wealth, their personal outcomes may have been, shall we say, less than desirable.
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