Dr. Wick Daddy's Daily Nugget - Sept. 13th

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Daily Nugget - Sensitivity

Sensitivity is an awesome characteristic.

It can be either our greatest ally….or our worst enemy.

The outcome depends how we channel it.

Our sensitivity can:
1. Aid us by making us aware of the needs of others.

2. Equip us to make better decisions about relationships ,business ventures and even the conversations that we entertain.

3. Also be our enemy, when it is channeled inwardly. It can cause us to misinterpret the comments, intentions and motives of those around us. When sensitivity is coupled with focus on self, it can damage our self esteem, our view of others and plants seeds of insecurity.

In the grand scheme of things, we are better off focusing on how we can contribute to the well being of others, instead of focusing on ourselves. When this happens, we will that one of two scenarios will occur:

1. We become our own worst critics.

2. We may think we are better than others.

Both outcomes are unhealthy and untrue.

The moral of the story: we must be sensitive to, and focus on, others. As we do this continually, God will eventually begin to solve the issues that we may seem unsolveable.

Have a swagnificent day party people!

Dr.W.D.

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The Relationship Series # 2 - What you won't do; do for love.

You should always pursue those that you care most about, beyond the point that they have angered you. Otherwise, you should never expect to be pursued, when the tables are turned. We must learn to give to loved ones, what they desire, so that what we desire will come to us. The challenge typically, is that the sowing (giving) always has to come before the reaping (receiving).

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Daily Nugget #174 - Respond and transform!

"Our interractions with others are shaped by, more than any other factor, our responses to them. Hence, we must come to the realization that we have trained others how to treat us by how we respond to them.

Daily Nugget #171 - Water your grass.

Men, if you are married to, or dating, a woman, there will always be someone prettier than she. However, that someone should never be more beautiful than your significant other, to you.

Daily Nugget #170 - Facebook Etiquette 101: Friend list maintenance

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to talk about this thing called Facebook. I use it daily. I am not here to plug it or demonize it. Rather, I would like this entry to serve as a friendly guidepost, as you navigate the seas of social networking. Is that cool with you? Beautiful..........let us proceed then.

The Relationship Series: Blended families, unblended fathers.

Good evening Dr.W.D. family,

I am submitting this entry for your review after much angst and inner turmoil. It has become quite obvious that this is an issue that is near and dear to me.

Hence, I shall now begin.

Daily Nugget #167 - Avoid the highway of disrespect.

Today will be a test of navigating the seas of disrespectful people. There are three categories:

Sunday Nugget - Speak what you want!

We sometimes allow ourselves to shrink in the presence of a seemingly overwhelming circumstance. Today we must challenge ourselves to speak the outcome that we desire.

The Relationship Series: Room and Access.

Good evening party people!

Lock and Key

Good morning friend.

I am writing to you at this hour, after much inner turmoil, regarding the nature of this topic. It has been some time, since our last post, here at TDWDS! Furthermore, I don't want this to turn into a five paragraph intro, so let's just dive in, shall we?

Relationships - The Workplace.

Happy April Fools to you!

I have chosen this day to share this relationship nugget for a very specific reason, that I will delve into, momentarily.

Relationships - Are you on display............or hidden?

Ladies, this part is dedicated to you.

Relationships - Are you too sexy to be faithful?

Are you buckled up? Cool. Here we go.

Relationships - Are you being mistreated?

The treatment that we receive from others is a direct result of what we permit them to say or do in our presence. There may have been a number of things that triggered the wrong behavior: gossip, verbal disagreement, or an offense that was picked up from another person. However, we cannot allow the unresolved issue to persist.