"Our interractions with others are shaped by, more than any other factor, our responses to them. Hence, we must come to the realization that we have trained others how to treat us by how we respond to them.
This conclusion entails both good and bad news.
The bad news is that every individual in our lives has been given our exclusive permission to take us for granted, disrespect us, and treat us less than we really are. To these individuals, I would like to extend my apologies......and perhaps so should you. These people have done what they have been given permission to do. It is not, totally, their fault. Be that as it may, these monsters in our lives were created by us.
The good news is that God has used these same individuals to train us on how we should not respond to others. Consequently, what must now take place is a change, on our part, in how we respond.. If there is a conversation taking place, in your midst, that isn't consistent with your character, politely excuse yourself. If you are being teased because of your virginity, it may be time find a new group to associate with that shares your values. Additionally, if you are always the one paying for events, excursions and food, now may be the time to leave your wallet or yourself, at home.
The recipe is quite simple and it may be easiest to remember by putting it to music.
Rule #1 - Rock - Adversity does not mean the relationship isn't a good one. People are still human.
Rule #2 - Roll - If an unfortunate event happens, roll with the punches, forgive and take note of it.
Rule #3 - Skate - If there is an offense that occurs because you can't roll with unfortunate event, skate away from the situation, not the person. To forgive is divine and positions you to be forgiven by others.
Rule #4 - Bounce - If, in your assessment of the relationship, you have shown compassion and have repeated been disrespected, disregarded or put in harm's way, it may be time to bounce. (i.e. exit the relationship.)
In other words, "Rock, shate, roll, bounce!"
24/7/365 - Please be you."
Dr. Wick Daddy
Copyright 2011
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